Some progress isn’t aesthetic perfection, but it’s life changing for our clients and this one has blown our socks off
This is our client’s bedroom. Let’s call her Emily. Which is not her name, but it’s always weird and impersonal to say ‘our client’ especially when what we do is SO personal.
So this is Emily’s bedroom.
As soon as I saw this I thought a few things. Mostly:
🛌 Emily is lovely and deserves a restful place to sleep
🛌 She is brave, brilliant and more resilient than she thinks she is for showing this to me: this is the hardest step
🛌 My team will LOVE to help her
There is always a story behind rooms like this. Often to do with guilt, shame, trauma, rejection, neurodivergence, difficult relationships or all of the above.
Whatever the cause; we handle clients like Emily with empathy, kindness and respect. We are honoured that people who are stuck invite us into their home to help get unstuck and we know just how nerve wracking it is to even make that initial call to us.
And then, with Emily on side (but not pictured) we unpicked the piles in her room.
Years of buying; dopamine hits; associated guilt and shame; buying again….. and the continuing cycle meant that she had no idea where to start.
But we did 🩷
Every drawer, cupboard and wardrobe was full to the max too. No wonder she felt suffocated and incapable of starting.
Imagine having to go through all these items one by one on your own and decide what to do with them? Impossible.
But not for us.
We have no emotional attachment to anything in this room. Our professional approach, years of experience and energy and enthusiasm for a job most (normal 😆) people would hate is an absolute joy for us. I know: we are weird, eh? In the best way, though 😄
We picked through clothes, trinkets, books, paperwork, bedding, shoes, bags, and all sorts and helped Emily to finally be able to make decisions over what she could let go of…
We could even now get to the windowsill to clean it 💪🏼
Here’s the side of the bed now.
And more of her room….
There’s more to do, that’s clear….
But for her, for now, this is life changing.
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